If a man is into domination during sex does this mean he hates you? If a partner is into domination during sex does this mean he disrepects you? In all other respects he seems a gentleman but im kind of emotionally confused by the way he behaves in the bedroom. in all other ways he is lovely so is it just a case of getting used to it? i dont find it repulsive, just new and a bit emotionally confusing. he never made a secret of being dom in the bedroom i just have never experienced it before. |
Not necessarily no. Some people just tend to be very different sexually than they are in their non-sexual life.
If you are curious, talk to him about it. That's the best way to find out why he likes what he likes in the bedroom. |
How much about sex is domination? I've found that it seems most women are turned on by the idea of being "dominated" when it comes to sex. I don't want to stereotype or generalize, so I want to ask females what they think. Are women turned on by the idea of being dominated by a guy? |
It doesn't have to be, but a lot of people like it that way.
One survey shows that among people who like BDSM (Bondage and discipline, Domination and submission, Sadism and masochism), 40% of women like to be dominated, 27.5% of women like to dominate, and 32.5% of women enjoy both about the same.*
Among vanilla (non BDSM) people, it's a bit harder to determine, but I'd say there is a tendency for women to prefer being dominated over dominating someone. But we are all complex. I'd guess that there are very few people who only ever want to be submissive, or only ever want to be dominant. Like sexuality, I think it's a spectrum.
Personally, I am turned on by the idea of being dominated by a guy, sexually and in the relationship as a whole. I've recently made the idea my reality by entering a D/s relationship as the sub. |
In what ways is domination and submission is at the center of sex? In what ways is domination and submission is at the center of sex? |
In itself it is not. Society (and dare I say it, feminism) have decreed that men are dominant and women are submissive. Repeated enough times and it has become more true. But ultimately, any woman can be dominant if she wishes it, and any man can be submissive if he wants to give it a go.
I'm assuming you're not talking about BDSM, of course.
Bob |
What forms peoples sexual preferences, such as S&M, domination, submission, "rough sex" v "vanilla sex" etc? I mean everyone will have their own preferences but why, what makes one person enjoy say soft kissing and gentle intercourse and someone else likes so-called rough sex?
I mean I have heard that homosexuals and lesbians are biologically disposed to being so, whether that is true or not I have no idea - but that's what I've heard. Is it then the same when it comes to folks who are say sexual sadists or sexual masochists?
Is it psychological or is it biological?
Thanks. |
I think that it's definitely psychological. If you are a timid person, you are probably more prone to perfering submission, if you are an assertive/agressive person at nature, you would probably be more likely to dominate, etc.
The way your life is lived and the way your experiences play out, shapes who you are in the present. If you have had a life of being nurtured and comforted (by your parents, etc), then you are probably going to find pleasure in gentle sex (I'm assuming that's what you mean by vanilla...? I've never heard someone say "vanilla sex" before...).
It's sort of a nature vs nurture type of thing, in which this case nuture shapes who you are presently, and that determines your personal preferences.
It can also vary from mood to mood. I know that I don't always prefer the same type of sexual treatment EVERY time. Although I do tend to lean towards one way of treatment, it varies depending on what I feel like. I tend to prefer the rough way of things (sometimes even moderate pain such as biting, etc). I grew up not being very well cared for... my mom was a typical "refrigerator mom", meaning she was cold and reserved, showing little affection. My dad was actually abusive, and when he wasn't being abusive he was quite reclusive (no rhyming intended!!). So needless to say, I didn't get much "nurture" growing up. And now look at me... I prefer rough housing and moderate pain. Definite correlation right there........ |
Why is there so much Jewish domination of the sex slave/guy sex slave industry? Please read the article before answering:
newsgroups.derkeiler.com/Archive/Alt/alt.religion.islam/2005-11/msg01495.html
The Talmud allows adultery and rabbis to to have sex with young boys and girls as young as the age of three. |
Look into Zionism.
Also, the jews were disproportionately involved int he slave trade. They want us to cry about the holocaust and forget about slavery.
Israel is a nuclear power because jews are "persecuted". Black People are hated and persecuted all over the world. We don't have our own land to our very own. Sure, there's africa, but the same zionists are exploiting that land along with the chinese, whites, arabs, etc. |
Sex domination games. Should I do it? 2 mature ladies and I were thinking of go for this sex fantasy, me having them both naked, tied up and doing to their body whatever I want. It’s about domination and a bit of humiliation but not pain involved. They really find it hot and they said that it would me more comfortable to them to do it with both in the same time.
Should I do it? Are there also other people finding this hot are we sick?
They are 38 and 41 and I’m 31. |
The three of you are obviously old enough to make decisions on your own. If all of you like the idea, then that's all it takes.
The thing about domination games is that you need to make sure you don't do anything to betray their trust. Also be sure to have a safe word in case one of them thinks things are going too far or changes her mind.
Also, make sure you trust them. It could be you show up at their place (or they show up at yours) and they decide to switch roles and make you their sex slave. Make plans to have dinner or something with a friend afterward so that if you don't show up, it at least will set off some kind of an alarm somewhere. Send an email to yourself with details about where and whom you're seeing so that if you do vanish, the police will have a trail to start with.
Even though you don't have any ill intentions towards them, you might recommend that they do the same just to help put their mind at ease a little bit too.
And don't worry, you're not sick. Lots of other people do it. Why else to you think there are so many companies out there selling toys for that kind of play. |
Do male beardies simulate sex with other males for domination? iv looked and i thought i had 2 males and a female but the definate male is trying it with both of them?? is that weird? |
| I have 2 males and one females the males have never simulated anything even remotely like sex. I would have them re-sexed. but here is a website that shows how to tell the difference it has pictures that helps alot but there are hermaphroditic dragons though rare. with both male and female parts. they are not fertile and cannot produce eggs but have both hormones in strong concentrations and may cause them to attempt to mate or be mated. |
Female domination outside of marriage... if there is no sex is it wrong? I have been married for 25 years. I love my wife. The sex is nil. I have just found a female dominatrixes who is not into sex only domination. I am not into it for love I am not sure why I am so curious. It just is so damn exciting to know when we meet she will have control over me. Any thoughts? |
| you are probably heading into a divorce if you keep it up...your mind is going to play tricks with you....you got past one temptation and no harm to anyone...it will be easy to go to the next level...if you truly love your wife get out of the situation you are in and try and slowly ease you conversations with her into seeing if she might have any interests like you...your marriage is just stale...talk to her...you will be better off....I've been there ...be careful...good luck |
What is the best sex fiction book for women? My girlfriend is looking for a erotic book or two for christmas. She is very adventurous with sex. She wants the following in the books in order of preference:
story line
female domination
strapon sex (women to man)
"lots and lots of sex"
"whips and chains"
sex toys (vibrators)
interracial sex (black man, white women)
threesomes and group sex
She likes anything which is fringe and a bit taboo. |
Well, I think online shopping can fit our need better for varied causes. Buying sex toys online not only save your time, but also save your money and energy.
Go to xmybox.com, and buy yourself a suitable sex toys LOL. |