How can i give my boyfriend the perfect ********? I'm 20 now and I've never done it. I've never had the confidence to do it and I've never really wanted to. And although my boyfriend says he doesn't mind it, I can tell that he's missing it and that he wishes I would. |
| ok just do what i did... get a bit tipsy first , maybe a glass of wine or something, then invite him over, watch a movie or something then get to kissing and cuddling and some petting... open his trousers and pull out his 'man' then start kissing his ear and down his neck slowly, then keep moving down his chest and tummy till you get to his c**k ... by this time he will be hard as f**k and raring to go.. hold his penis at the base and put your mouth around the head of his penis.. use your tounge to make circles around the top then lower your mouth on to his penis while pulling up and down with your hand, ocasionally take it out of your mouth and lick all over (maybe look up at his eyes to see his pleasure and give a cheeky smile) by this time im sure he will be about to blow in your mouth so start pulling harder and faster while in your mouth and when you feel he's gonna blow kinda block your throat with your toungue so you dont swallow... unless you want to lol!!! im sure he will love it.. i know my boyfriend did :) |
How do I give the perfect ******** please? tips or experience would be really useful, as I need to blow his mind but Im not that confident
thankyou |
i'll tell you a few of the things my guy likes.
1. make sure you either have lube or you lick your hand, then slowly rub the shaft while picking up speed.
2. lick the head in slow circuler motions for about a minuet.
3. take it all in your mouth. Now be sure you keep your lips over your teeth now a little bit of teeth might work but dont bite down. just gently graze.
4. Suck and move your head so it pulls in and out and every few minuets take it out and lick the head and the shaft a few times and don't be afriad to take a brake to catch your breath but keep stroking it with your hand while you do.
^_* Good luck. |
Perfect ********? How? I wanna give my boyfriend the best head ever! He says its amazing what i do but not the best and this may seem weird but i wanna be the best he has ever got! Help me? like what really makes them go? |
| Ask him what you are doing wrong? What would make it better? What he prefers? The only way to get better is to know what he likes hit on the key points of what turns him on. |
BLOW.JOB QUESTION. HOW DO YOU GIVE A PERFECT BLOW.JOB? AND WITHOUT WANTING TO VOMIT??? HELP??????????? PAST EXPERIENCES OF ME GIVING BLOW.JOB(BJ) HAS BEEN BELOW AVERAGE. IT SEEMS LIKE I'M GOING TO VOMIT/PUKE WHEN I GIVE BJ. I WAS ADVISED TO JUST SUCK IT LIKE A LOLLIPOP BUT IT ISN'T THAT EASY AND I WISH IT IS. HELP PLS. HOW CAN I PRACTISE AND WHAT DO I DO????? TIPS, ADVICE, SUGGESTIONS |
HOW DO YOU GIVE A PERFECT BLOW.JOB?
1. First you need to get him turned on - be more aggressive, grab his stuff, slowly massage his balls through his pants, it's important that you act as seductive as possible - the more you're turned on - the more he'll be turned on. Pull his pants down slowly and act as naughty as possible - this is a great turn on.
2. Grab his hand and lick on his fingers slowly before you give him head - just put his middle finger slowly into your mouth and suck on it, up and down, slide it slowly and moan - you have to moan a lot so he feels like a king.
3. As you're licking one finger, slowly start stroking his shaft (penis) with your other hand, you have to be on your knees and he should be standing, look him in the eyes - this way you can see his reactions. You need to love giving him head if you want him to really enjoy it.
4. Most girls make the mistake of being too soft - don't do that, grab his penis tightly and stroke it hard, as you're twisting his shaft with one hand slowly start sucking on the head (the tip) of his penis, curl your tongue around it, twist it in circles, then point it upwards and slowly lick it while you're watching him.
5. Say something like "mmmmm I love it" then smile, smiling is very important - it conveys that you love it. Keep on stroking and sucking harder.
6. Start talking dirty to him, put your hands around his balls and tickle them gently - make sure you are gentle 'cause his balls are very sensitive, as you're tickling, keep on stroking and sucking.
7. Once you see that he's getting closer start stroking harder - and don't even think about slowing down. Scream at him, tell him you want it - tell him where you want it (swallowing will make him go crazy just as you want it) - then as he starts to come, you have 2 options - you can hold his penis or he can hold it - I suggest you let him hold it and squeeze it out.
8. Then hold his penis and stroke it slowly, just as if you were trying to squeeze every last drop out of him into your mouth, give it a few more finishing licks.
9. Then smile at him, open your mouth and show him what you've got in your mouth, smile, then swallow all of it - then look up at him again and open your mouth to show him it's gone.
10. Smile again, believe me he'll love you for it.
Good luck |
How to give the perfect ********? yeah basically what floats your boat!! |
| either you have one to many stars... or i am high as hell because if you are trying to say blo w job... then there is no space. same with han d job. |
I need help! --********--? i really wnna be perfect when i giv my boyfriend hisfirst ********, even tho i have given 1 or 2 im not very confident so does anyone know someoone i can practise on or do you have any rlly good tips? thankyouu |
| If you practiced on someone else then wouldn't that be cheating? Practice on a carrott |
Nervous about giving my boyfriend a blow~~~job? ive been with my boyfriend for a year. we havent had se.x yet, but weve done everytihng else. the only thing i havent done with him is give him oral/ a blow~~job. I told him i would when hang out with him this weekend. But i find the whole thing gross, however i wanna give him one because he fills my desires soo well and i wanna give him something in return..im afraid that ill mess up or something...and im just afraid of the overally "putting his ___in my mouth. But i wanna do it. So how exactly do i do it and how can i make it perfect...i dont want it to be too hardcore or anything..i just want it to feel amazing to him but i dont wanna like shove the thing down my throat...id rather just use my tongue..or will i look like an idiot ? Help please? and im 17 years old. |
| believe it or not you really can't screw it up unless you use your teeth or bite it. he won't care how it's done and it really won't take long |
HOW DO I GIVE MY BF THE RIGHT ********?!!??! PLEASE HELP!!!!? so last night my boyfriend and I were making out and I proceeded to give him a handjob but my hand gave out before i could make him finish and he guided me A LOT and he cued me to go faster and everything but I had no energy left in me to finish him everytime...like we would come super close and then my arm would give out!!! We went at it for a good half hour and I just couldn't. I felt absolutely terrible after but he kept telling me that he loves me so much and that this does not mean **** to him and he knows I'm trying and since its the first time I've ever tried it I should really not feel bad and that we'll get it right soon enough and even if we don't he doesn't care he just loves me for who I am and that I'm soooo perfect and that if it doesn't bother him it shouldn't bother me. he was being superrrrr kind about the entire thing BUT can someone please tell me HOW i can get him off w/out stopping!?!!? Btw we are both 19 but I've never given a guy a hand job just cuz i was totally against that stuff until I met him...we have been together for 4 months and we love eachother to death and I wnat to be able to do this for him! pLEASE HELPP!! |
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How to give a proper ********? Hey,
I'd just like to get an idea of what it's like to give and recieve. So if there are any women who're skilled at the art, I'd love some advice. Equally so for any men who can advise me on what is generally preferred (or what's a great turn on).
See, I'm new to all this but I've really been excited (to the point of dreaming) at the idea of preforming this for my guy and I know it won't be perfect or anything but I'd like to go in having some idea of what's what.
Also, if any dude's happen by this (and are kind enough not to make fun of me) what's the difference in swallowing or not---I mean physically and emotionally? I've already made up my mind, I want to swallow, but what's the pleasure factor and why?
Thanks very much to anyone who takes pity on me and answers without mocking,
June R. |
Wow! I can't even believe i'm responding to this. It's just that i've been where you are now. Listen, my best advise to you would be this. Be very careful with your teeth. Scraping can ruin the entire thing for your guy. Try holding it, and stroking it while it's in your mouth. Also, every so often, when you come up to the tip, flick your tongue on the tip. Try the nodding yes motion while you are going up and down on it. Swirl your tounge around it too every so often when its about half way in your mouth so you are going at least the head. (the head is always very sensitive). Oh yeah, I almost forgot, cup his balls if you can with your free hand, and gently massage them at the same time.
As far as swallowing goes, i know theres no harm in it, but i've never been a swallower. Just guya grosses me out. But to each his own, do what you want. I have heard that this is a turn on for the guy, but i dont' think it really matters. Cause he's already released at that point yaknow. Some guys think that this is a way to show love or loyalty.
One last thing, make noise, even if you aren't into it, moan or kind of hum while your doing it. He will love that. Guys are turned on when they think you enjoy pleasing them.
Anyway, have fun, and don't forget the most important thing. Watch out with the teeth!!!
Best of luck to you. |