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Is the story of Fort Wayne Jehl's park swingers grave true? seriously because i live real close to that park | | Given the modern meaning of 'swingers', perhaps this ghostly phenomenon should think about a name change. People will think it's the spirits of a couple who went into the park for a quick ****. | What do you think of this title for my book about Barack Obama? "The True Story of Barack Obama"
How a half-Black half-Arab-Jew Homosexual Polygamist Swinger Socialist Saved America by Harmonizing the Agendas of the KKK, Somalian Pirates and Oprah Winfrey | One word comes to mind ... BIAS
Or "propaganda"
Or "too much Fox News"
Or "ideologies before facts"
Or "problem with logic" | So this woman was a swinger with her hubby and had sex with a black dude who had bigger phallus than her hubby the black guy was also a skilled lover and after the experience, she couldnt stand to look at her hubby again. she found him disgusting and became obsessed with the black guy and was begging the black guy to marry her. anyway cut long story short, she killed her husband to be with the black guy. THIS IS A TRUE STORY. I JUST SAW IT NOW ON A TV SHOW ON THE OXYGEN CHANNEL CALLED SNAPPED. so the question is are people who swing putting their relationship on the line if one of the partners experience a better lover? | Story aside, that is a risk in swinging, but typically if someone leaves their partner for a better lover, there wasn't much of a relationship there to leave...y'know?
Sex IS important to a relationship and if that part of a relationship isn't working it should be fixed...if it is working, even if you play with others, someone with (what you feel is) superior skill should be like going on a great vacation. It's super fun while it lasts, but then you go back home...and home is great. ☺ | What do people think of swingers, especially if they have guys? having recently chatted with a swinger in normal day life i find myself troubled with the notion of their lifestyle when they are married and they have guys. ive read answers which generally suggest its the choice and lifestyle of the parents and guys have to respect their privacy and in a nutshell butt out or move out. i saw one guy express finding evidence of his mother with 3 guys at the same time and still people were pushing that leave her to it view. i am not a religious guy but i do believe the notion craps all over marriage and common decency and respect in an increasingly more liberal and messed up world, generating more troubled individuals. call me old fashioned but if my mum had it off with a number of guys at the same time while my dad enjoyed it i couldn't sit there and pretend that they knew a damn thing about love and respect, that my friends is plain old SICK! i believe guys have the right to grow up and be raised in a respectful environment and parents have no right to do such hyprocryitical things. one of the greatest things you can say when your parents are long gone is they were such respectable role models that demonstrated true love by being loyal and faithful to eachother for the rest of their time together. its the stuff stories are made of. not, my parents were good parents but im left with the unpleasant memory of them participating in orgies and gangbangs, good on them! am i loosing my mind or are there plenty of people that feel it is plain wrong like me? | The sex life and sexual preference of parents, should stay between parents, whether they are swingers or not. A guy should not hear that his mother or father was with multiple partners, niether should they hear how great sex was between their mother and father. It doesn't matter if the couple are swingers or not. This question is more like an attack on swinging/open relationships. There are many adults living with good healthy relationships today, who don't know that there parents are or were swingers. On the other hand, there are many guyren living today with parents who are separated or divorced because of infidelity, financial issues or just growing apart. A guy would do better growing up learning there are no such thing as role models. There are people with admirable qualities, and mistakes to learn from others. The # 1 thing to have in life is understanding. Understand that not every lives their life the same way, understand that not everyone makes the same choices and that not everyone has to. Understand that jsut because someone does something different than what you are used to doesn't give you a right to ostracize or criticize them. Understand that as long as someone's choices isn't hurting or destroying the freedom of someone else, then it really isn't an issue. Its funny, we are living in a soceity of murderers, rapists, guy-sex offenders, abusive relationships, theives, inequality, discrimination, etc etc, but we choose to attack consenting adults and their lifestyle choices.
Just imagine the judgements already out there on your life choices (whether your are a parent or not): Do you smoke, Do you drink, Do you do either around guys? What type of foods do you allow your guys to eat? How invested in their education are you? Are you overweight? What's your BMI? Are you a single parent? Do you or have you had unmarried sex? How do you discipline your guys? Do you argue around them? Do you curse around them? What type of clothes do you buy them or allow them to wear? What do you allow them to listen to or watch? Do you pay your taxes honestly? Are you bootlegging or commiting anytype of piracy? How's your road rage? Do you lie? Do you lie around your guys, even white lie? What's your drug use history?................................… | The best 100 comedies? According to some web page that i found, this are the best 100 comedies, do you agree?
100. Anchorman
99. The Birdcage
98. School of Rock
97. Happy Gilmore
96. Four Weddings and a Funeral
95. Harold and Kumar go to White Castle
94. Waiting for Guffman
93. The Aristocrats
92. Father of the Bride
91. Revenge of the Nerds
90. Clueless
89. Slapshot
88. Team America: World Police
87. The Kentucky Fried Movie
86. Zoolander
85. Dirty Rotten Scoundrels
84. Silver Streak
83. Sister Act
82. Tootsie
81. Half Baked
80. Lost in America
79. Three Amigos
78. Bananas
77. Flirting With Disaster
76. Ghostbusters
75. Dumb and Dumber
74. Trading Places
73. City Slickers
72. Moonstruck
71. Roxanne
70. Nutty Professor
69. The Blues Brothers
68. Broadcast News
67. Kingpin
66. Dazed and Confused
65. Office Space
64. This is Spinal Tap
63. Manhattan
62. The Pink Panther
61. Election
60. When Harry Met Sally…
59. Police Academy Series
58. Private Benjamin
57. Swingers
56. Young Frankenstein
55. Bull Durham
54. Ferris Bueller’s Day Off
53. Dr. Strangelove
52. Meet the Parents
51. National Lampoon's Vacation
50. The Princess Bride
49. American Pie
48. American Graffiti
47. 9 to 5
46. The Incredibles
45. Raising Arizona
44. Sixteen Candles
43. What About Bob?
42. Harold and Maude
-41. Austin Powers: International Man of Mystery
40. Monty Python and the Holy Grail
39. Mrs. Doubtfire
38. Best in Show
37. Dodgeball: A True Underdog Story
36. Good Morning, Vietnam
35. Beetlejuice
34. Rushmore
33. Clerks
32. Groundhog Day
31. The Big Lebowski
30. The 40-Year-Old Virgin
29. Legally Blond
28. Annie Hall
27. A Fish Called Wanda
26. Wayne’s World
25. Meet the Fockers
24. Bill and Ted’s Excellent Adventure
23. Big
22. Beverly Hills Cop
21. Shampoo
20. The Jerk
19. Wedding Crashers
18. Stripes
17. M*A*S*H
16. Old School
15. Fast Times at Ridgemont High
14. Napoleon Dynamite
13. Naked Gun (series)
12. The Producers
11. Pee Wee’s Big Adventure
10. Arthur
9. Blazing Saddles
8. The Wedding Singer
7. Ace Ventura, Pet Detective
6. Airplane
5. South Park: Bigger, Longer & Uncut
4. There’s Something About Mary
3. Shrek
2. Caddyshack
1. Animal House | | Happy Gilmore and Office Space are too far down and I don't see Tropic Thunder on there...the greatest movie made in the last two years. | PLEASE....I AM SCARED, ALONE, HAVE NO MONEY, AND I NEED HELP! Constructive answers only, please!? I have been married to my husband for almost 18 yrs, but for the last several, he has been getting consistently more abusive. He smacks, pushes, kicks, pulls me by my hair, spits in my face, and, most tormenting, the namecalling and mental abuse. He has alienated everyone we knew. He's told our family and friends that I am lazy and useless, and that I cheated on him.(This isn't true..we used to be swingers, & he prefered watching...long story!)
We live in the Midwest., and all my family is on the East coast.The only real witnesses I have to the abuse are my two boys, and they've left home, not on speaking terms with thier dad.
Various battles and bruises contributed to the loss of my job. Now, I am a slave/prisioner in my own home. He tells me if, when, where, and how long I can be gone, on the rare times he allows me to leave. My car keys and phones are kept locked and I must ask permission to use. He keeps me on a tiny $$. I am trapped, and worse, broken. How can i get out alive? | | After this many years of abuse your self-esteem and self-worth has obviously diminished to nothing. Get out of there immediately. Go to the police and file a restraining order. If you have proof of physical abuse, file charges against him. Go to live with a friend or one of your boys if that is an option. If not, go to a shelter for abused women and they will help you get on your feet. File for divorce. Get a job and get a new life without him! Good luck, girl ~ you can do it. You deserve so much more out of life than what he is giving you! | Does My Asian Wife Want to Swing? Does My Asian Wife Want to Swing?
We are mid-40's couple, white husband, chinese wife, reasonably or better attractive.
I am very outgoing, but the wife can be shy or at least a little timid.
About 5 years ago we experimented with swinging but never consumated it. We did build a Profile on a Swingers Site with her photos in Public Viewing but with her face masked.
We then went to a Swingers Club near our home about 4 times, but never had a Swing relationship, only sitting talking with others etc and seeing some of the sex acts taking place. Afterwards we always had hot sex at home. She also has in the past talked of wanting to have a bi encounter, though she says she is bi curious. She also thinks it would be hot if she could watch me with another woman.
Then we found out she was pregnant. She said leave the Profile but (I think) she said remove her photos on the Swinger Site.
In any case, for almost 4 years we have not spoken of Swinging.
This week we went on vacation. The night before she turned the TV to Showtime and we watched some soft porn film while we made love. Her eyes were constantly on it as we made love.
Two days later while returning to our home from vacation, she calmly stated that
"I still get a lot of email from sex sites and Swinger Websites."
Then added, (which is true), , "I don't read it, I just delete it, but it is nice that these sites always keep me aware of events and things in that lifestyle." Then lastly added that "I am glad we went to City A for vacation, because City B had a Swinger Party there this last night." "I noticed that there was a Party there from the subject line of a email I received from the Swinger Website we are on."
I listened but made no reply as our little one was sleeping in the back seat.
After she finished, I added, well you can read anything in your email if you want, there's no harm."
She then replied with, "yea those people we meet and the ones we exchanged email with we all very nice."
She then asked, when was the last time I had checked the Swinger Site Inbox (I said it had been a while) and then added as the conversation died out, "Even if you left my Photos on the Site it is OK with me. There is no harm."
So this is the story in as much detail as I can remember and with all the facts.
Does it sound as though my Chinese wife wants to begin to explore Swinging again, or at least that she is not opposed to it?
I am fine with it, but don't want to open the bottle if I am just imagining things.
Thanks | | I have never had an asian woman. But I've always wanted to try one. Maybe I can help both of you. | Is My Wife Interested in Pursuing Swinging? We are mid-40's couple reasonably or better attractive.
I am very outgoing, but the wife can be shy or at least a little timid.
Since our Daughter was born four years ago, we have never been out alone.
About 5 years ago we experimented with swinging but never consumated it. We did build a Profile on a Swingers Site with her photos in Public Viewing but with her face masked.
We then went to a Swingers Club near our home about 4 times, but never had a Swing relationship, only sitting talking with others etc and seeing some of the sex acts taking place. Afterwards we always had hot sex at home. She also has in the past talked of wanting to have a bi encounter, though she says she is bi curious. She also thinks it would be hot if she could watch me with another woman.
Then we found out she was pregnant. She said leave the Profile on the Swinger Website but (I think) she said remove her photos.
In any case, for almost 4 years we have not spoken of Swinging.
This week we went on vacation. The night before she turned the TV to Showtime and we watched some soft porn film while we made love. Her eyes were constantly on the screen as we made love.
Two days later while returning to our home from vacation, she calmly stated that,
"I still get a lot of email from sex sites and Swinger Websites."
Then added this, (which is true), ,
"I don't read them, I just delete them, but it is nice that these sites always keep me aware of events and things in that lifestyle."
Then lastly added,
"I am glad we went to City A for vacation, because City B had a Swinger Party there this last night." "I noticed that there was a Party in City B from the subject line of a email I received from the Swinger Website we are on."
I listened but made no reply as our little one was sleeping in the back seat.
After she finished, I added, "Well you can read anything in your email if you want, there's no harm."
She then replied with,
"yea those people we met and the ones we exchanged email with were all so very nice."
She then asked, when was the last time I had checked the Swinger Site Inbox (I said it had been a while) and then she added as the conversation died out,
"Even if you left my Photos on the Site it is OK with me. There is no harm."
So this is the story in as much detail as I can remember and with all the facts.
Does it sound as though my wife wants to begin to explore Swinging again, or at least that she is not opposed to it?
I am fine with it, but don't want to open the bottle if I am just imagining things.
Also, any suggestions?I posted this question yesterday but I guess I placed it in the wrong catagory so I thought I would try again.
Thanks | | Only way to be 100% clear is to just ask her. | Is he cheating on me? Its a long story but I hope everything comes out. So I recently met the man of my dreams, I mean he really means the world to me. We've only been together for 8months but those 8months seem like a lifetime but anyway, we both work for the government so we both move around a lot and now he's far away.
a social site
After being together for so many months a noticed that he wasn't a friend on my a social site so I added him... when he accepted I viewed his page only to notice that his r/ship status said single. I was very upset I mean who wouldn't be. So instead of confronting him about it I just simply changed mine from in a r/ship to swinger Anyway one day upon him viewing my profile... this was his reaction oh so you a s swinger huh so I replied u single soo... then he xplained that he hadn't even noticed that its still said single because he had had his profile for so long that he just stopped making changes to it... Understandable, I thought so he changed it to in a relationship
Comments
I was really missing him one day so I decided to leave him a profile comment on his a social site page.. which he didn't accept. When I asked him about it, he kept giving me xcuses till he must've assumed I had forgot because I stopped asking. I really don't know what to think... I comment on his pictures and trust me by my comments you can tell we are involved... that was the point anyway... so why not accept the profile comment?
a social site
he recently joined a social site after me asking him to so many times because a social site is kinda dead now, nobody goes on there anymore atleast not really but anyway he joined and at first for his relationship status he put that he was single and then later he went back and didn't put anything at all.. don't get me wrong... it's pretty obvious why he did it. I mean why not admit you are in a r/ship unless you have some hidden agenda?
Pictures
I was talking to him recently and told him that he should put new pics up on his a social site and I agreed so he gave me his password and I put em up he didn't fail to warn me about the female's number in his inbox tho but anyway I thought he would have changed his password immediately after but he didn't I know because I checked, I didn't go true his stuff just logged in to c if it still worked. He changed it today however. I know that he loves me that I definitely do know but I can't help to question his faithfulness and I really don't wanna be the fool in the end because I really care about him and I'd do anything for him. They say you can't have love without trust but thats not true at all because I love my boyfriend with all my heart but I trust him as far as I can throw him. because at the end of the day, he's still a man, and he's gonna do what a man does.
Pictures
I used have a whole album with pictures filled with only him on my a social site but I took em all down because not once did he ever put a picture of me up, not that he has any but he could do the same thing I did. I also had that same album on my a social site which I also took down because its not fair honestly... I let everybody know that I'm happily taken but he refuses to do the same which is why I believe there is someone else. because of his covert ways its causing me to think that he is unfaithful, but the problem is I HAVE NO WAY TO PROVE IT. Yes his actions are questionable but he's always been 'mysterious' since I've known him. He's the type that doesn't like to share his business.
Going crazy now
I just want to know the truth. I ask him all the time if there is someone else and he denies it not that I xpect him to answer truthfully. I find myself now trying to find ways to hack into a social site and since he changed his password 4facebook that too. I know this is wrong but I think I have good reasons. Its not fair for you to give your all to someone not mention saving urself for them and for them to turn around and spit in your face by cheating on you telling you basically that you weren't enuff. Once again I find myself in a long distance r/ship and I find myself holding on... don't get me wrong he calls me 2wice/day everyday so I know he cares but what is he hiding. I know long distance r/ships don't work out but with our jobs most of our r/ships will b long distance whether we like it or not so we have to get used to it. Just don't know what to think anymore... just wanna know what's going on. Don't wanna be the fool in the end again | | Well, we all know that when you had his password you were going through his stuff. It's human nature so don't be ashamed. I've done it, and I know everyone of my girlfriends has done it at some point or another be it on a social networking acount, text messages, or even going through personal papers and living space. If he's not cheating on you (which from the females number, he could very well be) he is still not making an effort to show you off and let the world know how happy HE is with you. Which means, he's probably not happy. I would leave him because he sounds like a fool and you do not deserve to be heartbroken sweetie. Move on, find someone even greater that will treat you like a princess. | Troubles with my "best friend"? Ok, here is the whole story:
When I moved to Texas, I was about three. I met a girl my same age named Britney, and soon we spent every living moment together. As we grew up, we kind of went apart. She would always pick fights with me-- like "AT&T is way better than Verizon!" Because I had Verizon (I think it is a good phone company) and she had AT&T (I don't hate it, but I like Verizon better) and I know I shouldn't, but I would argue back explaining why I liked Verizon, and she would just bicker. Now, my brother, Denis, sometimes is rough with me. Like he pretends to cut my arms off and then hits me-- but don't all siblings fight? I ignore him, sometimes it hurts and I tell him to stop, but normally I really don't care. It's not like he leaves bruises or scars, Hell no. Now, Britney was sometimes at my house when it happened, and she spread rumors around school that my brother beat me. She has "proof" by my eczema. Eczema is a skin condition that I was born with, and she would say the scabs and marks on my legs were caused by my brother, and I really wanted to punch her square in the face. I mean, my brother wasn't deadly or anything! He would joke around, I mean, boys are naturally like that! They're boys! (No offense) *snicker* lol, anyway...I made a lot of mistakes then, so I was kind of mean back, but this time it was true. I told people she hurts her dogs, and it is true. She runs a puppy mill-- except when the mother of over 20 pups (she had many litters) died, they threw the job away. I would see the mother be very skinny, and they would prevent her from feeding her pups breast milk. But, it wouldn't matter anyway since they never fed them. Now, my dog, Zeus, grew up in a terrible environment. He was abandoned as a puppy and grew up on the streets. We sometimes call him a "Swinger dog" because as a puppy he would go house to house begging for a home, and the people would let him in but then for a potty break outside, he would scamper off, running off to a new home to "swing" at. We got tired of this, and when he turned a flat out three, we called the ASPCA and turns out no one knew his owners. We took him in. He is kind of vicious sometimes, because he had to defend himself and attack squirrels for a living when he was younger, but he was sweet to the family for taking care of him. Now after a litter of puppies from Britney's yard came to try to sneak some food from Zeus' bowl (we actually fed our dogs) Zeus killed them. I don't blame him, he is our guard dog and I was sad and gave discipline, but when we weren't home he killed the entire litter of puppies but one, which my brother saved, and now I wish that he didn't. I know that is harsh to say, but I would rather that one puppy die then be washed with hand soap during baths, have ticks and fleas on it's skin since it was born, no food or water, and when it storms outside or if there is bad weather they still don't let their dogs onto their porch. We can't call the animal police because we have no proof-- and all they are going to do is reject that they did anything. We can't plant cameras, or put tape recorders, because we could get arrested for that. Now, what pissed me off is that Denis, my brother, found Britney take one of her misbehaving dogs and slam it onto the ground, holding its neck and hit its stomach really hard. I confronted Britney and told her that we couldn't be friends anymore if she hurt her dogs-- and so it happened. She chose abusing her dogs over being friends with me. I actually kind of felt bad for her, though, I realized I was her friend because she needed one. People around school would gossip about her, and I was blown away by it. Anyhow, the next day it turns out her parents are leaving and she has to take care of the little one in her family, and her parents still thought we were friends and sent her over to me to stay there until her parents came back (they don't like their guyren being home alone). So we hang out and it was awkward, and when her parents came back she went away. That's that. Now, she always comes over and picks conversations about us, and she still thinks we are friends! Sorry about this being SO long, but how can I tell her that we aren't friends and we aren't going to be unless you tell your family to stop hurting their dogs?!
P.S. I know she can afford it, both her parents work and she has a very cheap house AND is a only guy, unlike my family which has an expensive home and only one parent working, well, my mom and dad are divorced so my mom has a job and supports three guys with an expensive house.
My main question is, How can I tell Britney that we aren't friends in a manner that will say it clearly and specifically highlight the part where "You beat your dogs and I want to punch you square in the face for doing that" but nicer? | You should say"Britney,Im not sur how to tell u this but i cant be your friend anymore and i know you and your family are going through a rough time with money and stuff but i dont like how you abuse your dogs And i think its wrong"
If shes a good person she should understand and respect ur opinon
Good luck on however u choose to tell her. |
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